I have dirty text threads with everyone… except my husband. What’s up with that?

Hi Jake,

My friends and I are always texting about hot guys—sharing our favorite Instagram himbos, trading Just For Fans logins, and having hysterical, X-rated conversations about what we’d do with sexy male celebs. It feels like a fun, healthy way to express my sexuality, especially after years of holding back.

Recently, my husband asked who I’m always texting, and when I gave him a glimpse, he wondered why I don’t have those kinds of conversations with him. Honestly, it feels easier and more natural with friends, and I’m not sure why. You’d think I’d be more comfortable sharing that side of myself with my husband, but something holds me back.

How about we take this to the next level?

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