My gay resumé is… sparse. With so few partners, am I underdeveloped as an adult male?

Hi Jake,

I’m about to turn 32, and sometimes I look at my romantic history and just… sigh. It’s basically nonexistent. I’ve never been in a relationship, and I’ve only had less than 10 partners in my entire life—and those were mostly friends, not people I met through dating or hookup apps. Most of them are now in relationships, live far away, or are just unavailable. I don’t have a network of gay friends or prospects, and honestly, I wouldn’t even know where to start building one.

It’s not that I haven’t wanted connection—I just feel like I somehow missed a crucial window for developing the skills or confidence to pursue it. And now, at 32, I’m wondering if something’s wrong with me. Have I

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